“Why
were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Fathers house?
But
they did not understand what he said to them”.
Mary
and Joseph didn’t understand much about what was going on in their life since
the visit of the Archangel Gabriel. Since the moment of the Annunciation, followed
by the nativity of Christ in a very strange and unusual environment, the threat
from King Herod, their hasty escape into Egypt ,
their new life in a strange country, and then finally their move back to Nazareth , Mary and Joseph
must have been very confused. All of these events must have been for them a
kind of surprise and a big shock, as well as moments of constant questioning:
“What the heck is going on with our life?”
Certainly, all those circumstances could
have been a cause of mutual frustration and misunderstanding. All this could
cause quarrels and mutual criticisms, grudges, resentments and bitterness. This
Family was really going through very serious difficulties in their life. And
yet they didn’t finish in a disaster, in a divorce, in any kind of bitterness
and mutual accusations. It was rather the opposite - a strengthening and
intensification of their mutual love, mutual understanding and closeness in
their family life. Despite of all the difficulties and problems, despite the
fact that they were a very poor family, without means and without a future
(from the human point of view), despite the fact that they were living a very
basic and austere life, they didn’t end up in resentment and mutual hostility.
Why? It was certainly because of the fact that Mary and Joseph were people of
constant prayer and deep faith, but also because of the fact that Jesus was
constantly with them. They were living in the constant presence of
Jesus. Can you imagine what could happen with and in our families if we
allowed Jesus to be present in our daily life?
Today’s Feast of the Holy Family shows
us that faith and prayer have to be the most important elements of our family
life. Our families are in trouble; our contemporary families are in deep
jeopardy just because we do not allow Jesus to be present in them. Our faith,
prayer, and the presence of Jesus in our families is restricted or limited to
the scarce moments of Sunday Mass, or perhaps even less.
Prayer is supposed to become our
daily companion and the source of answers for our questions: how to solve the
problems, how to be a good father and good mother, a good husband and a good
wife.
If faith and prayer are present in
our homes, if Christ is present in our families, we can face the most difficult
moments and the most challenging situations in our life and be sure that we
will stay united and victorious throughout all harsh and ruthless moments of
contemporary life. Where Christ is, there will be mutual understanding, love,
strength and building up of our family life. Our family then, following the
example of the Holy Family of Nazareth, will truly become the Family of God.
And this is exactly what we, the
pastors of this parish, wish sincerely to all FAMILIES today on the Feast of
the Holy Family , the patron of our Parish: My OUR parish be composed of Holy
Families, following the example of the Holy Family of Nazareth.